To mediate gender-based violence (GBV), the most effective steps involve prevention, protection, survivor-centered response, and accountability. Mediation must prioritize safety, dignity, and justice, while engaging families, communities, and institutions.
KEY STEPS IN MEDIATING GENDER-BASED VIOLENCE
1. Ensure Immediate Safety
- Remove the survivor from danger and secure a safe environment.
- Provide access to shelters, safe houses, or trusted community spaces.
- Safety planning is essential before any mediation process begins.
2. Listen and Validate
- Approach survivors with empathy and confidentiality.
- Avoid judgment or blame; affirm their dignity and rights.
- Use trauma-informed communication to reduce emotional harm.
3. Engage Support Systems
- Involve family, community leaders, or faith-based mediators only if the survivor consents.
- Connect survivors to professional services (medical, psychosocial, legal).
- Encourage community accountability to challenge harmful norms.
4. Address Root Causes
- Discuss underlying issues such as power imbalance, cultural norms, or economic stress.
- Promote dialogue that emphasizes equality, respect, and non-violence.
- Use biblical and ethical frameworks (e.g., Genesis 1:27 – all created in God’s image) to reinforce dignity.
5. Legal and Institutional Support
- Inform survivors of their legal rights under Kenyan law (Sexual Offences Act, Protection Against Domestic Violence Act).
- Facilitate reporting to police or legal aid services when appropriate.
- Ensure mediation does not replace justice but complements it.
6. Follow-Up and Monitoring
- Establish ongoing support through counseling, mentorship, or community watch groups.
- Monitor progress to ensure violence does not recur.
- Empower survivors economically and socially to reduce vulnerability.